Judged and criticized

 Few years back Sajal Aly did a drama with ahad Raza Mir that became quite famous, which was Yaqeen Ka safar, no doubt an amazing drama but one dialogue of Sajal Aly that hit me was, “Allah maaf kar deta hai, insan maaf nahi karty”, (God forbids, but people don't)

And that’s the reality of our society, and it's even worse for us women, one mistake and your entire life is ruined, your personality will be defined by that one mistake, your character will be assassinated because of that mistake and your family including you will be judged and criticized for the rest of your life.

Men make the same mistake, sometimes even worse and they are let go because either it's women's mistake after all, or because HE IS A MAN.

Mistakes are just that, mistakes, people need to understand that every person throughout their life makes mistakes, yes some can be worse than others, but if someone is learning from their mistakes and moving on, why won't you let them ?

Mistakes are a part of life. Period. Stop shaming someone for something they did long ago and they probably have suffered the consequences of their mistakes as well.