Single or Committed

 With the rising cases of domestic, mental, physical abuse in marriages, in addition to those suffering from toxic and narcissist in laws, how do you think we can convince a single person to get married or to just commit.

Every one, girls more than guys are worried about what their future holds after getting married and when you see so much negativity around you, and the dissatisfaction and mental load after getting committed or married, you can't help but think, I'm better off single.

And to a certain point you might be, but we as humans crave for closeness, chemistry, and partnership. You can be single till 40 or 50 but there will come a point where you wish you have a partner, someone to share your mental load, your happiness, with whom you can spend good, bad and worst times. And at that time you will be so desperate to get into a relationship that your judgment about a potential partner will be clouded and you are most likely to make a bad decision as well.

I don't mean to say that get married ASAP, do it at your own time, do it when you are ready, but not getting married or committed at all shows commitment issues, and that just not the solution.

Getting committed or married is like what my mama says, Marriage is like a laddo, you repent it if you eat it, and you repent if you don’t