Boundaries

 Boundaries are something that needs to be maintained whether you are in a romantic relationship or just a friendship, so consider this your noobs guide for building and maintain your ✨️ boundaries ✨️

Boundaries are a funny thing, but they have a very simple strategy, don't let anyone treat you the way they want. But what does that mean ?

In a noob's language, don't let anyone treat you like something which they would not approve of themselves. 

A lot of the times you let go of little things thinking “it's no big deal but that’s where you are wrong, because that's when you are allowing the other person to treat you like crap, and letting them know that you are a pushover who won't say or do anything.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't compromise, there's a fine line between compromise and maintaining boundaries, compromising is letting your friends choose the hangout spot because you chose the previous one but building boundaries means not taking crap just because you couldn't show up because of some personal issues.

Remember how you get treated by others is a direct example of how you are letting others treat you.