Things to look for in a partner

 As a single person, a lot of the people usually think about what kind of person they should get married to, what qualities to look for in a partner to be and how they can be sure that it's the right person so I am gonna tell you exactly that today.



Number one thing to look for in a potential partner is an open minded, flexible good Muslim, now I say Muslim because literally, if they are a good Muslim they have already ticked a lot of the boxes and it's such an underrated thing these days, that literally no one talks about it.


I understand a lot of people have fears because it's a perceived perception in our minds that someone following religion = rigid and narrow minded person, but a good Muslim can never be that, because a good Muslim doesn't judge you for who you are or what you do, they might correct you try to educate you, pray for you but they will never judge you, that's something you would want in a partner. 


Number two, they should be emotionally mature, grown ups, so that when God forbid if you are going through a difficult phase they can help you and your relationship rather than backing out and you basically becoming a single, committed person.


Last but not least, they should know how to respect you even when they are angry, even when you are wrong and even when things go south.






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